"I'm going to annoy the shit out of you until you love me."
-Me talking to my cat about 5 seconds ago.
That statement is awkwardly accurate.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Yall don't really know
Today, I woke up and felt like hell's cousin and then went to the kitchen and the dogs were angsty and i had a list of "chores" (adult?) and then my cat vomited. So I decided that I made a mistake and that it was not the time for me to wake up so I ignored all of that, took a shower, got in my bed naked, and tried it again. I napped for about 10 minutes and then retried the morning thing. It was much better the second time around. I don't know which is worse: vomiting or cleaning up someone else's vomit.
Ok. Now ignore that description because my usual routine is different. I wake up at 8 am every morning, I go to work, I come home and help clean the house, I work on my play, I take care of the dogs and my cat, I dance in my room, I go to the gym (sometimes), I eat whole grains, I go to bed at 10 pm, and then I get up and start it all over again. I'm obeying the laws of society and "growing up" but what the world doesn't know is that it's all to please the 'rents to respect their wishes while I live under their roof and then I'm peacin' out from this "normal" existence.
I like how I said "the world doesn't know" but I'm basically broadcasting this information to all of humanity (aka my readers). I'm like one of those reality stars that cheats on their significant other while on camera and then he or she acts surprised when the significant other finds out.
I don't understand people who cheat. I just don't understand it.
Not going there. Focus. ok go. This is what my point is: I am beginning to understand the value of being real but blending it with respecting the wishes of those around you- despite the differences. I say this because for a while I would just get pissed at the lifestyle of my family (and I still do) and I would criticize them constantly. The products are all animal-tested, there is a ridiculous amount of stress in the W. house (that's White house. My father is Obama), and aspartame pollutes the house. Everything EVERYTHING is sugar-free. I hate that fake shit. I HATE IT.
People. Stop cheating through life. Don't cheat on your lovers, especially while on reality t.v., but also stop buying sugar-free cokes and cookies and yogurt and icecream. Keep it real. Since when can you cheat life? Since when you can you beat nature? Ummm you can't. There are consequences for everything. Aspartame is poison, yall. When I was a freshman in college, I would drink only diet drinks and eat only diet foods and it DESTROYED the liner of my esophagus, my muscles atrophied, and I got chronic fatigue. That's fffking real. Some people are more susceptible to the damages of aspartame (like my fragile white ass) but it affects everyone whether you feel it yet or not. This is a new product in society and science is not yet aware of the long-term effects but many many people have suffered aspartame poisoning and many still do and don't realize. NO I KNOW IM NOT A DOCTOR! But I do know what it did to me, and I know others who say the same thing. It's just logical too. It's a chemical that we are putting in our bodies and our bodies are not designed for that kind of stuff. Our bodies need carbohydrates and fats and proteins and vitamins- real ones- not man-made. Men do not know better than nature. Women do, but we are too busy getting in wrecks and crying during our periods to do anything about it. So, keep it real. We have one life. Why would you not want to live it fully? Eat real food, and live real reality... not through a reality show that you watch (although I may love Real Housewives of New Jersey)
FOCUS
As I was saying, you gotta be you but you have to respect those around you because that is the only way to maintain peace and receive respect in return. When I have my own house, you best believe I'll be keeping real icecream in the house and there will be no tabloid magazines in the bathroom and we will not be psychotic about keeping the house spotless all the time, and it will not look like a pottery barn, but while I'm at home and getting so much wonderful support from my family, I'm going to respect their choices in life. All the while I won't forget what is important to me, and that will always ultimately determine my life decisions. So yeah... I'm moving to Washington State and if you don't like that, you can stay at home and distract yourself with American Idol or Lost reruns and I'll go dance naked in the Washington rain daily because when I die, I won't give a fuck what you thought of me. I'll only care about how often I was naked and if it wasn't enough, that will be huge regret.
Life goal: Don't miss a naked opportunity.
I'm bloggin naked right now.
So stop hatin. Stop fakin. Be at peace with your surroundings and internal peace will come that much easier. Peace. Love. Hippie shit.
Ok. Now ignore that description because my usual routine is different. I wake up at 8 am every morning, I go to work, I come home and help clean the house, I work on my play, I take care of the dogs and my cat, I dance in my room, I go to the gym (sometimes), I eat whole grains, I go to bed at 10 pm, and then I get up and start it all over again. I'm obeying the laws of society and "growing up" but what the world doesn't know is that it's all to please the 'rents to respect their wishes while I live under their roof and then I'm peacin' out from this "normal" existence.
I like how I said "the world doesn't know" but I'm basically broadcasting this information to all of humanity (aka my readers). I'm like one of those reality stars that cheats on their significant other while on camera and then he or she acts surprised when the significant other finds out.
I don't understand people who cheat. I just don't understand it.
Not going there. Focus. ok go. This is what my point is: I am beginning to understand the value of being real but blending it with respecting the wishes of those around you- despite the differences. I say this because for a while I would just get pissed at the lifestyle of my family (and I still do) and I would criticize them constantly. The products are all animal-tested, there is a ridiculous amount of stress in the W. house (that's White house. My father is Obama), and aspartame pollutes the house. Everything EVERYTHING is sugar-free. I hate that fake shit. I HATE IT.
People. Stop cheating through life. Don't cheat on your lovers, especially while on reality t.v., but also stop buying sugar-free cokes and cookies and yogurt and icecream. Keep it real. Since when can you cheat life? Since when you can you beat nature? Ummm you can't. There are consequences for everything. Aspartame is poison, yall. When I was a freshman in college, I would drink only diet drinks and eat only diet foods and it DESTROYED the liner of my esophagus, my muscles atrophied, and I got chronic fatigue. That's fffking real. Some people are more susceptible to the damages of aspartame (like my fragile white ass) but it affects everyone whether you feel it yet or not. This is a new product in society and science is not yet aware of the long-term effects but many many people have suffered aspartame poisoning and many still do and don't realize. NO I KNOW IM NOT A DOCTOR! But I do know what it did to me, and I know others who say the same thing. It's just logical too. It's a chemical that we are putting in our bodies and our bodies are not designed for that kind of stuff. Our bodies need carbohydrates and fats and proteins and vitamins- real ones- not man-made. Men do not know better than nature. Women do, but we are too busy getting in wrecks and crying during our periods to do anything about it. So, keep it real. We have one life. Why would you not want to live it fully? Eat real food, and live real reality... not through a reality show that you watch (although I may love Real Housewives of New Jersey)
FOCUS
As I was saying, you gotta be you but you have to respect those around you because that is the only way to maintain peace and receive respect in return. When I have my own house, you best believe I'll be keeping real icecream in the house and there will be no tabloid magazines in the bathroom and we will not be psychotic about keeping the house spotless all the time, and it will not look like a pottery barn, but while I'm at home and getting so much wonderful support from my family, I'm going to respect their choices in life. All the while I won't forget what is important to me, and that will always ultimately determine my life decisions. So yeah... I'm moving to Washington State and if you don't like that, you can stay at home and distract yourself with American Idol or Lost reruns and I'll go dance naked in the Washington rain daily because when I die, I won't give a fuck what you thought of me. I'll only care about how often I was naked and if it wasn't enough, that will be huge regret.
Life goal: Don't miss a naked opportunity.
I'm bloggin naked right now.
So stop hatin. Stop fakin. Be at peace with your surroundings and internal peace will come that much easier. Peace. Love. Hippie shit.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Preach, William Blake
Those who restrain desire, do so because theirs is weak enough to be restrained
Always be ready to speak your mind, and a base man will avoid you.
Every thing possible to be believ'd is an image of truth.
The eagle never lost so much time, as when he submitted to learn of the crow.
I love to rise in a summer morn,
When the birds sing on every tree;
The distant huntsman winds his horn,
And the skylark sings with me:
O what sweet company!
But to go to school in a summer morn, -
O it drives all joy away!
Under a cruel eye outworn,
The little ones spend the day
In sighing and dismay.
Ah then at times I drooping sit,
And spend many an anxious hour;
Nor in my book can I take delight,
Nor sit in learning's bower,
Worn through with the dreary shower.
How can the bird that is born for joy
Sit in a cage and sing?
How can a child, when fears annoy,
But droop his tender wing,
And forget his youthful spring!
O father and mother if buds are nipped,
And blossoms blown away;
And if the tender plants are stripped
Of their joy in the springing day,
By sorrow and care's dismay, -
How shall the summer arise in joy,
Or the summer fruits appear?
Or how shall we gather what griefs destroy,
Or bless the mellowing year,
When the blasts of winter appear?
Always be ready to speak your mind, and a base man will avoid you.
Every thing possible to be believ'd is an image of truth.
The eagle never lost so much time, as when he submitted to learn of the crow.
The Schoolboy (aka how I feel about the past 18 years of my life)
I love to rise in a summer morn,
When the birds sing on every tree;
The distant huntsman winds his horn,
And the skylark sings with me:
O what sweet company!
But to go to school in a summer morn, -
O it drives all joy away!
Under a cruel eye outworn,
The little ones spend the day
In sighing and dismay.
Ah then at times I drooping sit,
And spend many an anxious hour;
Nor in my book can I take delight,
Nor sit in learning's bower,
Worn through with the dreary shower.
How can the bird that is born for joy
Sit in a cage and sing?
How can a child, when fears annoy,
But droop his tender wing,
And forget his youthful spring!
O father and mother if buds are nipped,
And blossoms blown away;
And if the tender plants are stripped
Of their joy in the springing day,
By sorrow and care's dismay, -
How shall the summer arise in joy,
Or the summer fruits appear?
Or how shall we gather what griefs destroy,
Or bless the mellowing year,
When the blasts of winter appear?
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
LIFE
So. I'm runnin a daycare. And....I.....am.....living.....at......home. "Living" is such a strong word.
Actually, I'm ok with it. I know it is just for the summer. I already know where I am moving after this summer so I have that to look forward to. And, staying at home always gets me organized and keeps me focused on work/writing/important things rather than gettin wasted. Plus, my parents house is always so dang clean that it makes me feel less like a college student living in sin and debauchery. When you make your physical life organized clean and pretty, it helps to shape your internal life. And vice versa. When the internal and external conflict, though, stability is basically impossible.And I really do want stability. Not in the "nuclear family living in suburbia going to Olive Garden on birthdays and special occassions and spending 6 hours a week at Target and 20 hours a week watching Extreme Home Makeover and American Idol" kind of stability. I want the "I can relax and enjoy life as it comes and know that I can handle whatever comes my way" kind of stability.
It's funny to me how life does not give half-a-hoot about your "plans" but if you let life lead you, you find happiness and content like you never imagined. I'm not saying my life is all flowers and mulberries and shit, but the good definitely helps me cope with the bad and my trust in life allows me to cope with things so much better than I used to. I mean, heck, I never thought I would date and fall in love with a soldier in the military and I never thought that I would graduate school and move home to run a daycare, but I am actually so very happy about these events. Life is pretty brilliant.
But I really don't want to live at home long. Really. REALLY really don't want to so don't get any funny ideas life. DONT.
Ok. I'm done.
I love you all.
Katie
Actually, I'm ok with it. I know it is just for the summer. I already know where I am moving after this summer so I have that to look forward to. And, staying at home always gets me organized and keeps me focused on work/writing/important things rather than gettin wasted. Plus, my parents house is always so dang clean that it makes me feel less like a college student living in sin and debauchery. When you make your physical life organized clean and pretty, it helps to shape your internal life. And vice versa. When the internal and external conflict, though, stability is basically impossible.And I really do want stability. Not in the "nuclear family living in suburbia going to Olive Garden on birthdays and special occassions and spending 6 hours a week at Target and 20 hours a week watching Extreme Home Makeover and American Idol" kind of stability. I want the "I can relax and enjoy life as it comes and know that I can handle whatever comes my way" kind of stability.
It's funny to me how life does not give half-a-hoot about your "plans" but if you let life lead you, you find happiness and content like you never imagined. I'm not saying my life is all flowers and mulberries and shit, but the good definitely helps me cope with the bad and my trust in life allows me to cope with things so much better than I used to. I mean, heck, I never thought I would date and fall in love with a soldier in the military and I never thought that I would graduate school and move home to run a daycare, but I am actually so very happy about these events. Life is pretty brilliant.
But I really don't want to live at home long. Really. REALLY really don't want to so don't get any funny ideas life. DONT.
Ok. I'm done.
I love you all.
Katie
LOVE
You breathed on me and made my life a richer one to live
When I was deep in poverty you taught me how to give
Dried the tears up from my dreams and pulled me from the hole
Quenched my thirst and satisfied the burning in my soul
It’s never been my duty to remake the world at large
Nor is it my intention to sound a battle charge
’Cause I love you more than all of that with a love that doesn’t bend
And if there is eternity I’d love you there again
WAM BAM! Thank you ma'am.
And by "ma'am" I mean Bob Dylan.
When I was deep in poverty you taught me how to give
Dried the tears up from my dreams and pulled me from the hole
Quenched my thirst and satisfied the burning in my soul
It’s never been my duty to remake the world at large
Nor is it my intention to sound a battle charge
’Cause I love you more than all of that with a love that doesn’t bend
And if there is eternity I’d love you there again
WAM BAM! Thank you ma'am.
And by "ma'am" I mean Bob Dylan.
Monday, May 24, 2010
The Activia Challenge
Ok. I'm feelin bloggy right now.
First of all, I'm watching a commerical about the "Activia Challenge." You know, that yogurt that pleases you digestively. This is what I'm thinking. People take yogurt way too seriously. Why are you making a video diary of your experience with Activia? Why do you want evidence of your irregularity? If you are willing to be in a commercial to document your poop issues, then you have bigger issues to document.
THEN AGAIN, here I am documenting my experience with that chick's poop experience. I am way too closely associated with that woman's poop.
I have decided to create my own challenge- equally uninteresting to the general public but hopefully less...disgusting. I want to write for 1 whole hour every day while eating yogurt. WAIT. NO. No yogurt. That commercial was so convincing, though! I just want to write 1 hour a day. The ultimate goal is to have a play written by September 1, 2010.
Now that I am no longer in school, I am more compelled to learn and accomplish things. Hmmm. Interesting. It seems as though human curiousity can be enough drive to learn, and it is only when outside forces interfere and begin placing their own intentions in one's life that learning becomes a burden rather than a gift and a joy. HOW FREAKIN FASCINATING!
I just like opposing things. I really do. I hate being told what to do. I hate when people believe they deserve respect merely because of a "title" or even because of age. Yes ma'am, you are older than the hills, but does that mean that I am supposed to agree with you when you tell me that global warming is a communist lie? Maybe it does. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I should take that woman's poop seriously. Maybe I have no idea what this world is. Am I that girl? Am I that girl that shows up to every party thinking she was invited and that people want to have sex with her so as a favor to the party people she gets naked when really everyone just wants her to put her clothes on and live in a cave? Am I that girl!? AM I EVEN A GIRL!? I look in the mirror and I have my doubts! Who is Justin Beiber? Am I supposed to care? How often does he poop??? WHAT MATTERS???
Not this blog.
Coldplay matters.
I have to go.
Sorry,
Katie
First of all, I'm watching a commerical about the "Activia Challenge." You know, that yogurt that pleases you digestively. This is what I'm thinking. People take yogurt way too seriously. Why are you making a video diary of your experience with Activia? Why do you want evidence of your irregularity? If you are willing to be in a commercial to document your poop issues, then you have bigger issues to document.
THEN AGAIN, here I am documenting my experience with that chick's poop experience. I am way too closely associated with that woman's poop.
I have decided to create my own challenge- equally uninteresting to the general public but hopefully less...disgusting. I want to write for 1 whole hour every day while eating yogurt. WAIT. NO. No yogurt. That commercial was so convincing, though! I just want to write 1 hour a day. The ultimate goal is to have a play written by September 1, 2010.
Now that I am no longer in school, I am more compelled to learn and accomplish things. Hmmm. Interesting. It seems as though human curiousity can be enough drive to learn, and it is only when outside forces interfere and begin placing their own intentions in one's life that learning becomes a burden rather than a gift and a joy. HOW FREAKIN FASCINATING!
I just like opposing things. I really do. I hate being told what to do. I hate when people believe they deserve respect merely because of a "title" or even because of age. Yes ma'am, you are older than the hills, but does that mean that I am supposed to agree with you when you tell me that global warming is a communist lie? Maybe it does. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I should take that woman's poop seriously. Maybe I have no idea what this world is. Am I that girl? Am I that girl that shows up to every party thinking she was invited and that people want to have sex with her so as a favor to the party people she gets naked when really everyone just wants her to put her clothes on and live in a cave? Am I that girl!? AM I EVEN A GIRL!? I look in the mirror and I have my doubts! Who is Justin Beiber? Am I supposed to care? How often does he poop??? WHAT MATTERS???
Not this blog.
Coldplay matters.
I have to go.
Sorry,
Katie
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Warning: This post is extremely insensitive and unnecessary.
So the post I wrote about 4.67 seconds ago is the whiniest bunch of bullshit in the world. Even worse than those fuckin starving Africans.I was about to delete said post and then I realized that I wrote it for a reason, though, and I should just leave it up to be judged. Judge away.
Oh and if I didn't insult humanity enough with the harsh words against the sufferings of those in third-world african societies, here is a picture of a cat at gunpoint.
This is symbolic.
Fruits and sexual metaphors
You know how I pretend to be all self-aware? Oh you don't know that? Wow. You are even less aware of me than I am. Rude.
Well, at times, I really do think that I know who I am, but other times reality smacks me around and I can't tell if it is doing it in a fun kinky kinda way or a legitimate beat the shit out of me way. That specific confusion is the root of many of my problems.
Anyway, I say that because I may not know how I treat others or how I make others feel at all. And I may not have a clue why I treat others the way I do. This is what got me thinkin about that:
Early in the day heinousness was flowing forth from every pore of my body and I was ok with that because it needed to happen. I have felt that heinousness bubbling below the surface and, hell! (internal exclamation point. interesting choice. thank you.), I don't want to deal with that! I would much rather others have to deal with my unbearable attitude. So I just let myself be. I didn't try to hide that I was upset for various reasons. I didn't just talk to hear myself speak, either. If I didn't have anything to say, I didn't say anything. I didn't try to lighten the mood to keep anyone from feeling uncomfortable. I just said, "Hey you! It's me!" and he/she said, "Whoa! Who's that?!" and then I said, "I JUST SAID IT'S ME!" and then he/she said, "Wait.. you aren't being funny or charming or taking care of me!" and then I said "I know I'm usually amazing and my words heal the world, but today I'm going to sit here and let the world rot so that I can stew in my own pissy-ness for a bit."
Those are the brilliant first lines of my new play, "When I talk, I say."
Anyway, I did all that business and then hell quite literally sprung forth from the pores of mother earth (Reggie, you have just been out-hippied! sorry others. that's a game the reg and I play) and my pissy-ness grew in volume. It wasn't the clear, hydrated pissy-ness, either. It was I just ate asparagus and drank a large blue-raspberry gas station slushie kind of pissy-ness. This got me athinkin'. Deep down in my heart, I think I really believe that others really don't give a shit about me. I know that sounds emo and junk, and I know I have great friends that love me, but that is just an issue of mine. We all have issues and that's mine! NOT THAT YOU CARE, ASSHOLE! Sorry. No, but what I'm sayin is that the one time when I really just did not worry about glazing over my problems with "I mean I know it will work out" or "I know it isn't a big deal" or "I'm sure I'm overreacting" or any other bullshit phrases that mask the true emotion I'm dealing with, the universe gave me the finger and everything just got messier and in the end I was very disappointed in the response. I feel like I really do listen to my good friends (at least I hope I do) and try to understand when they aren't being themselves or when they maybe are being a bit rude because they have shit in their lives. I try to help them as best as I can because I care about them. I am not Jesus (I don't think...) so I usually don't really know exactly what to say or what to do to fix all, but I just say or do what I would want from someone else because that is all I can draw from. Not from everyone, but from many people, I don't feel like I get the same respect or consideration. People expect me to be a certain way and when I'm not, their faces melt off and they get uncomfortable because they are faceless. So instead of asking what is wrong or paying attention to the more intense things I have in my life and maybe inquiring about them every once in a while just to see how I'm doing, they just ignore the situation until I'm acting my usual crazy, loud, sarcastic, indecisive, wackadoo self. Well, I know that I am a lot to handle. I know I am really difficult to get along with sometimes because I can be a huge fantastic diva with long curly locks of shimmering hair, but even with all my apparent confidence and vitality of sorts, I would like every once in a goddamn blue fuckin moon (yeah.. I'm not Jesus) for one or two people that I love to maybe try to take care of me. I realize that sounds so lame. I sound like Bella from Twilight (First twilight reference in this blog. This blog is really going downhill). But I'm trying to be honest here. I really am a fragile lil peach and I want someone to lovingly stroke my fuzz (why are looking at me like I just made a vagina reference?)
Here is my next question. Here it is. And now. Am I just asking others how they are doing and taking an interest in them and their problems because I want it in return? Is it all based in selfishness? Do people really care about one another or do we just want others to care about us and feel obligated to return the sentiment?
I started this post with the idea that it was going to be brief, hilarious, and life-altering. It took a rather long, boring, life-stunting turn. Yay wasting your time reading my blog!
I guess I say all this because I want all 600,000 of my dedicated readers to start calling and emailing me on a semi-hourly basis to constantly check on me and pity me and baby me. That's all I want in life. To be pittied and pathetic.
No, but really I'm fine. I'm sure it will all work out. I can handle it. It's ok. Really.
(heinousness bubbling)
Who do you care about? Why? Do you show them? How? Are these questions cheesy and irritating? Good.
Well, at times, I really do think that I know who I am, but other times reality smacks me around and I can't tell if it is doing it in a fun kinky kinda way or a legitimate beat the shit out of me way. That specific confusion is the root of many of my problems.
Anyway, I say that because I may not know how I treat others or how I make others feel at all. And I may not have a clue why I treat others the way I do. This is what got me thinkin about that:
Early in the day heinousness was flowing forth from every pore of my body and I was ok with that because it needed to happen. I have felt that heinousness bubbling below the surface and, hell! (internal exclamation point. interesting choice. thank you.), I don't want to deal with that! I would much rather others have to deal with my unbearable attitude. So I just let myself be. I didn't try to hide that I was upset for various reasons. I didn't just talk to hear myself speak, either. If I didn't have anything to say, I didn't say anything. I didn't try to lighten the mood to keep anyone from feeling uncomfortable. I just said, "Hey you! It's me!" and he/she said, "Whoa! Who's that?!" and then I said, "I JUST SAID IT'S ME!" and then he/she said, "Wait.. you aren't being funny or charming or taking care of me!" and then I said "I know I'm usually amazing and my words heal the world, but today I'm going to sit here and let the world rot so that I can stew in my own pissy-ness for a bit."
Those are the brilliant first lines of my new play, "When I talk, I say."
Anyway, I did all that business and then hell quite literally sprung forth from the pores of mother earth (Reggie, you have just been out-hippied! sorry others. that's a game the reg and I play) and my pissy-ness grew in volume. It wasn't the clear, hydrated pissy-ness, either. It was I just ate asparagus and drank a large blue-raspberry gas station slushie kind of pissy-ness. This got me athinkin'. Deep down in my heart, I think I really believe that others really don't give a shit about me. I know that sounds emo and junk, and I know I have great friends that love me, but that is just an issue of mine. We all have issues and that's mine! NOT THAT YOU CARE, ASSHOLE! Sorry. No, but what I'm sayin is that the one time when I really just did not worry about glazing over my problems with "I mean I know it will work out" or "I know it isn't a big deal" or "I'm sure I'm overreacting" or any other bullshit phrases that mask the true emotion I'm dealing with, the universe gave me the finger and everything just got messier and in the end I was very disappointed in the response. I feel like I really do listen to my good friends (at least I hope I do) and try to understand when they aren't being themselves or when they maybe are being a bit rude because they have shit in their lives. I try to help them as best as I can because I care about them. I am not Jesus (I don't think...) so I usually don't really know exactly what to say or what to do to fix all, but I just say or do what I would want from someone else because that is all I can draw from. Not from everyone, but from many people, I don't feel like I get the same respect or consideration. People expect me to be a certain way and when I'm not, their faces melt off and they get uncomfortable because they are faceless. So instead of asking what is wrong or paying attention to the more intense things I have in my life and maybe inquiring about them every once in a while just to see how I'm doing, they just ignore the situation until I'm acting my usual crazy, loud, sarcastic, indecisive, wackadoo self. Well, I know that I am a lot to handle. I know I am really difficult to get along with sometimes because I can be a huge fantastic diva with long curly locks of shimmering hair, but even with all my apparent confidence and vitality of sorts, I would like every once in a goddamn blue fuckin moon (yeah.. I'm not Jesus) for one or two people that I love to maybe try to take care of me. I realize that sounds so lame. I sound like Bella from Twilight (First twilight reference in this blog. This blog is really going downhill). But I'm trying to be honest here. I really am a fragile lil peach and I want someone to lovingly stroke my fuzz (why are looking at me like I just made a vagina reference?)
Here is my next question. Here it is. And now. Am I just asking others how they are doing and taking an interest in them and their problems because I want it in return? Is it all based in selfishness? Do people really care about one another or do we just want others to care about us and feel obligated to return the sentiment?
I started this post with the idea that it was going to be brief, hilarious, and life-altering. It took a rather long, boring, life-stunting turn. Yay wasting your time reading my blog!
I guess I say all this because I want all 600,000 of my dedicated readers to start calling and emailing me on a semi-hourly basis to constantly check on me and pity me and baby me. That's all I want in life. To be pittied and pathetic.
No, but really I'm fine. I'm sure it will all work out. I can handle it. It's ok. Really.
(heinousness bubbling)
Who do you care about? Why? Do you show them? How? Are these questions cheesy and irritating? Good.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Jellyfish
My boobs each have a boy name and a girl name. I think that is very symbolic of my life right now.
So, I really am graduating. REALLY. I am just about really and truly done with school, and I'm just wondering why no one told me that school prepares you for nothing. NOTHING.
No it doesn't, asshole! IT DOES NOT PREPARE YOU FOR THAT!
Oh, school was supposed to teach me about being responsible? Is that why I got drunk, showed up late for classes or skipped them all together the next day, and then ate taco bell while watching Keeping Up With the Kardashians when I got home? hmm?
Oh, school was supposed to teach me about the value of hard work? Is that why I bullshitted 90% of my classes and still managed to pass and graduate in 4 years?? hmmmm???
Oh, school was supposed to teach me to be a viable member of society? Is that why I am leaving school unemployed, broke, and with a strong will to get drunk, not look for a job the next day, eat taco bell and watch Keeping Up With the Kardashians at my parents house? hmmmmmmm???!!
Oh, school was supposed to teach me how to follow my dreams? Is that why I was forced to take an ungodly amount of classes that had no relevance to those dreams that my little shining spirit yearned to follow? HMMMM??!!
Oh, school was supposed to drain my parents financially while simultaneously draining that same little shining spirit that I discussed during the previous snarky question of its sense of adventure and excitement to get up in the morning? SUCCESS!
It really deeply affects that same little shining spirit mentioned in the previous two questions that I am 21 and am JUST NOW figuring out that school has nothing to do with living.
NO IT DOESN'T!
Yeah, ok. So I appreciate that I can read, and I love that I can speak some espanol, and I dig that I have read some really great plays and learned some really groovy things about the world in my sociology classes and such. I can see some value in those things. definitely. BUT I did not need 18 years to learn those lessons AND I would have learned more had I gone out and experienced more in my life. But Lawd Knows that the way our society thrives in this idea that life is about spending tens upon tens upon hundreds of thousands of dollars on education just so that you can go out and do a job that wears you out and makes you physically and mentally ill in order to earn money just so that you can pay for your kids to go out and do the same damn thing. All the while, you got a mortgage on a generic 2 story brick house, a gas-guzzling car that earns you some social status among a group of people that honestly don't know any real truth about you nor do they care, and a wife or husband that you love but never have time to do the things you always said you would. You have settled because "settling down" is the goal. We hear it all the time. "It's time to settle down with a nice lad/lass and have some kids." Is that right though? Is it wrong? I DONT KNOW
I know it's a pattern for a reason. Is the reason that it's natural and that humans really do want that? Or is it a pattern because the "stable" "nuclear" "family" is easier for the powerful people that make money off of this pattern to control and manipulate. If everyone was just a crazy hippie beatnik life-lover and everyone really did do whatever he or she wanted, not what society or his or her parents or friends or teachers expected, then everyone would truly be an individual and the group mentality would cease to exist. And with no group mentality, the people in power would have no power anymore and without that power, they may just have to look inside themselves and realize that they never once questioned the pattern that their life had fallen into. Never once did they do what they really wanted. They only did what society said would make them valuable and rich and important. The thing about society, though, is that it has no heart. It has no compassion. Society is a jellyfish.
I'm aware that I'm a cliche. I GET IT. I'm 21; I hate the Man; I listen to jazz; I dance naked in the rain; I read poetry; I wear converses. YEAH. I'm not special.
But I am scared of the largeness of life, and I want to contribute something great to that life. That is what makes the liberal college cliche of a student wonderful and a force to be reckoned with. We are full of energy and fear and alcohol and angst and all of a sudden, school ends and we have a world of actual choices to step into. No more teachers or parents saying go do this at this time. Nope. We choose where we work, where we live, who we see, and what we value. People underestimate and devalue the freshly graduated liberal because we remind those who do not see the potential and grandness in life anymore of what they have lost and how far they have strayed and how deep into the debt, not the financial kind either, they are in life. We remind them of their mortgage and their shitty job and their less-than-thrilling relationship with their spouse and their complete disconnect from their own dreams and passions. Underneath their judgment and condescending scoffs is jealousy. You know how I know this? Because in school, that's what they always told me. If someone is rude and bullying you, he or she is jealous.
Hmm.. Maybe school is important. Ok. I take it all back. Wait. Changed my mind again! OH THE INCONSISTENCIES OF YOUTH
I am a zealous supporter of a life truly lived, and I know that like most passions, that fierce support will fade at times, but I hope that when that happens I will remember that I am going to die one day. Really. Die. Dead. Not exist. So in between now and then, I have to do everything that my heart desires so I have no time to get caught up in man-made "rules" for life. Each individual has his/her own brain, own body, own spirit for a reason. If we were all meant to want the same things from life, we would not need the intelligence we are all born with. I believe that we are born infinititely more wise than we are when we start going to school. Because before school, we have no real concept of grades or money or fashion or laws. We have hunger. We have thirst. We have raw emotions. We cry whenever the fuck we feel we should. We laugh loudly. We sing in public. We bring our imaginations into the tangible world and don't care who is looking. We have fun outside with only our friends to play with and the grass to run through and the trees to climb. Only when the "mature" "intelligent" "adults" begin informing us of society's pressures do we begin to suppress and mold ourselves into something more "acceptable."
I don't see this changing in this world. I'm realistic. But I do like to remind myself of these things because while I cannot change the world, I can change myself. I can choose to never lose the child within me. I can choose to be free within the chains that bind me. No one controls my mind and how I percieve and believe the world to be. This brain is mine, and it has been long before you taught me how to read and write. This life is mine, and it will always be no matter how much you want to own me and my decisions. So, thank you school for teaching me some cool fun little skills, but I want to focus my time of graduation on thanking myself for always seeking the truth that often escapes the scope of facts. I want to thank myself for living- for simply being- in a time when society values doing and doing and working and altering and nipping and tucking and faking.
Oh. And I'm really not all that liberated and free. I still feel fat most of the time; I worry constantly about disappointing people around me; I am considering grad school; and I eat meat again.
Hypocrisy?
No. I like to call it Hippieocrisy.
Shit. I'm human, and all humans say one thing and do another. It's what makes us all so dumb. It's also what makes us so interesting.
People don't makes sense. You know how I know? Because I don't make sense, and all people are the same. No one is special. I can see that because I went to school and can make sense of things. Make sense?
Ultimately the meaning of life is whatever you want it to be because your life and all its experiences are unique to you and thus the meaning of life is an individual discovery. You are special. I know that because I just do.
Life is an argument between 2 sides: the liberal and the conservative; the christian and the athiest; the cat person and the wrong person; the left hemisphere of the brain and the right; the logical and the inexplicable.
Don't try and make sense of it because then you will end up making a blog that only puts more useless bullshit into the world than is already in existence with E! tv programming.
Oh I gotta go! Keeping Up with the Kardashians is on.
Fuck off.
I love you.
-4:40 am Katie
So, I really am graduating. REALLY. I am just about really and truly done with school, and I'm just wondering why no one told me that school prepares you for nothing. NOTHING.
No it doesn't, asshole! IT DOES NOT PREPARE YOU FOR THAT!
Oh, school was supposed to teach me about being responsible? Is that why I got drunk, showed up late for classes or skipped them all together the next day, and then ate taco bell while watching Keeping Up With the Kardashians when I got home? hmm?
Oh, school was supposed to teach me about the value of hard work? Is that why I bullshitted 90% of my classes and still managed to pass and graduate in 4 years?? hmmmm???
Oh, school was supposed to teach me to be a viable member of society? Is that why I am leaving school unemployed, broke, and with a strong will to get drunk, not look for a job the next day, eat taco bell and watch Keeping Up With the Kardashians at my parents house? hmmmmmmm???!!
Oh, school was supposed to teach me how to follow my dreams? Is that why I was forced to take an ungodly amount of classes that had no relevance to those dreams that my little shining spirit yearned to follow? HMMMM??!!
Oh, school was supposed to drain my parents financially while simultaneously draining that same little shining spirit that I discussed during the previous snarky question of its sense of adventure and excitement to get up in the morning? SUCCESS!
It really deeply affects that same little shining spirit mentioned in the previous two questions that I am 21 and am JUST NOW figuring out that school has nothing to do with living.
NO IT DOESN'T!
Yeah, ok. So I appreciate that I can read, and I love that I can speak some espanol, and I dig that I have read some really great plays and learned some really groovy things about the world in my sociology classes and such. I can see some value in those things. definitely. BUT I did not need 18 years to learn those lessons AND I would have learned more had I gone out and experienced more in my life. But Lawd Knows that the way our society thrives in this idea that life is about spending tens upon tens upon hundreds of thousands of dollars on education just so that you can go out and do a job that wears you out and makes you physically and mentally ill in order to earn money just so that you can pay for your kids to go out and do the same damn thing. All the while, you got a mortgage on a generic 2 story brick house, a gas-guzzling car that earns you some social status among a group of people that honestly don't know any real truth about you nor do they care, and a wife or husband that you love but never have time to do the things you always said you would. You have settled because "settling down" is the goal. We hear it all the time. "It's time to settle down with a nice lad/lass and have some kids." Is that right though? Is it wrong? I DONT KNOW
I know it's a pattern for a reason. Is the reason that it's natural and that humans really do want that? Or is it a pattern because the "stable" "nuclear" "family" is easier for the powerful people that make money off of this pattern to control and manipulate. If everyone was just a crazy hippie beatnik life-lover and everyone really did do whatever he or she wanted, not what society or his or her parents or friends or teachers expected, then everyone would truly be an individual and the group mentality would cease to exist. And with no group mentality, the people in power would have no power anymore and without that power, they may just have to look inside themselves and realize that they never once questioned the pattern that their life had fallen into. Never once did they do what they really wanted. They only did what society said would make them valuable and rich and important. The thing about society, though, is that it has no heart. It has no compassion. Society is a jellyfish.
I'm aware that I'm a cliche. I GET IT. I'm 21; I hate the Man; I listen to jazz; I dance naked in the rain; I read poetry; I wear converses. YEAH. I'm not special.
But I am scared of the largeness of life, and I want to contribute something great to that life. That is what makes the liberal college cliche of a student wonderful and a force to be reckoned with. We are full of energy and fear and alcohol and angst and all of a sudden, school ends and we have a world of actual choices to step into. No more teachers or parents saying go do this at this time. Nope. We choose where we work, where we live, who we see, and what we value. People underestimate and devalue the freshly graduated liberal because we remind those who do not see the potential and grandness in life anymore of what they have lost and how far they have strayed and how deep into the debt, not the financial kind either, they are in life. We remind them of their mortgage and their shitty job and their less-than-thrilling relationship with their spouse and their complete disconnect from their own dreams and passions. Underneath their judgment and condescending scoffs is jealousy. You know how I know this? Because in school, that's what they always told me. If someone is rude and bullying you, he or she is jealous.
Hmm.. Maybe school is important. Ok. I take it all back. Wait. Changed my mind again! OH THE INCONSISTENCIES OF YOUTH
I am a zealous supporter of a life truly lived, and I know that like most passions, that fierce support will fade at times, but I hope that when that happens I will remember that I am going to die one day. Really. Die. Dead. Not exist. So in between now and then, I have to do everything that my heart desires so I have no time to get caught up in man-made "rules" for life. Each individual has his/her own brain, own body, own spirit for a reason. If we were all meant to want the same things from life, we would not need the intelligence we are all born with. I believe that we are born infinititely more wise than we are when we start going to school. Because before school, we have no real concept of grades or money or fashion or laws. We have hunger. We have thirst. We have raw emotions. We cry whenever the fuck we feel we should. We laugh loudly. We sing in public. We bring our imaginations into the tangible world and don't care who is looking. We have fun outside with only our friends to play with and the grass to run through and the trees to climb. Only when the "mature" "intelligent" "adults" begin informing us of society's pressures do we begin to suppress and mold ourselves into something more "acceptable."
I don't see this changing in this world. I'm realistic. But I do like to remind myself of these things because while I cannot change the world, I can change myself. I can choose to never lose the child within me. I can choose to be free within the chains that bind me. No one controls my mind and how I percieve and believe the world to be. This brain is mine, and it has been long before you taught me how to read and write. This life is mine, and it will always be no matter how much you want to own me and my decisions. So, thank you school for teaching me some cool fun little skills, but I want to focus my time of graduation on thanking myself for always seeking the truth that often escapes the scope of facts. I want to thank myself for living- for simply being- in a time when society values doing and doing and working and altering and nipping and tucking and faking.
Oh. And I'm really not all that liberated and free. I still feel fat most of the time; I worry constantly about disappointing people around me; I am considering grad school; and I eat meat again.
Hypocrisy?
No. I like to call it Hippieocrisy.
Shit. I'm human, and all humans say one thing and do another. It's what makes us all so dumb. It's also what makes us so interesting.
People don't makes sense. You know how I know? Because I don't make sense, and all people are the same. No one is special. I can see that because I went to school and can make sense of things. Make sense?
Ultimately the meaning of life is whatever you want it to be because your life and all its experiences are unique to you and thus the meaning of life is an individual discovery. You are special. I know that because I just do.
Life is an argument between 2 sides: the liberal and the conservative; the christian and the athiest; the cat person and the wrong person; the left hemisphere of the brain and the right; the logical and the inexplicable.
Don't try and make sense of it because then you will end up making a blog that only puts more useless bullshit into the world than is already in existence with E! tv programming.
Oh I gotta go! Keeping Up with the Kardashians is on.
Fuck off.
I love you.
-4:40 am Katie
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Do I do what I want?
Honestly, for most of my life I don't think I have. I have done what my parents want, what my teachers want (that's a big one), what my lovers want (that makes me sound like a 40 year old divorcee), what PETA wants, what the Man wants, and what the Man of La Mancha wants. People be wantin a lot! STOP WANTIN PEOPLE!
Shit. I'm runnin late. I gotta be somewhere...but do I want to be???
Do you do what you want?
You should.
Because I want you to.
KKtheKoolKid
Honestly, for most of my life I don't think I have. I have done what my parents want, what my teachers want (that's a big one), what my lovers want (that makes me sound like a 40 year old divorcee), what PETA wants, what the Man wants, and what the Man of La Mancha wants. People be wantin a lot! STOP WANTIN PEOPLE!
Shit. I'm runnin late. I gotta be somewhere...but do I want to be???
Do you do what you want?
You should.
Because I want you to.
KKtheKoolKid
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
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